Why You Feel Forgotten: Understanding Seasons of Preparation Before Possessing Your Promise
Episode Description:
Ever feel like you're stuck in the "in-between"—waiting on promises, but your reality looks nothing like your dreams? In this powerful episode, Charity Majors opens up about the seasons of spiritual preparation and why those moments of feeling overlooked are essential for growth. Using biblical examples, real-life stories, and her own journey, Charity Majors unpacks the difference between calling and commission, the purpose behind life's delays, and how to steward your heart while you wait.
Key Timestamps:
00:00:13 – Episode introduction: God-given gifts, feeling forgotten, and the "chaotic hole" before breakthrough
00:02:24 – Understanding the “in-between”: Why feeling overlooked isn’t the end of your story
00:06:37 – The calling vs. the commission: How David’s 14-year wait as a case study
00:12:20 – The foundation rule: Why your character must go deep to support your calling
00:21:03 – Waiting "in" God instead of “on” Him: Active vs. passive waiting
00:24:10 – Managing comparison and disappointment when others get their promises first
00:28:00 – Delays, detours, and Ishmael: Why God’s timing is always protective
00:33:13 – Rooted identity and understanding your unique sphere of influence
Key Takeaways:
You are not forgotten or bypassed—your “in-between” season is a preparation, not a punishment.
The process develops your character so you can sustain the promise, much like how a foundation must go deep to support a tall building.
There’s a big difference between a calling (the invitation) and a commission (the deployment).
Actively wait in God by developing your gifts and building internal strength, instead of passively waiting "on" Him.
Steward your heart during seasons of delay, especially when comparison or disappointment creeps in.
Don’t rush your process or try to “birth an Ishmael”—what God is preparing for you is meant to last and bless many.
Your primary identity as a child of God must be rooted before stepping into any calling or platform.
Mentioned Links & Resources:
Blueprint Guide: [Guide to Understanding God's Process of Preparation for Possessing the Promise]
(Link will be in the show notes as mentioned in the episode—be sure to check there!)
Kingdom Influence Blueprint: Referenced for understanding your unique sphere of influence
(Also available via show notes—don’t miss out!)
Charity’s book: Meant For More: Igniting Your Purpose in a World that Tries to Dim Your Light
(Find details and links in the show notes)
Previous episodes: Go back to catch previous discussions on spiritual gifts, the language of the spirit, and identity shifts.
Grab the blueprint guide, revisit past episodes, and get ready for the next step in your journey to possessing your promise!